How are you when it comes to making decisions?\u00a0 Do you fret?\u00a0 Sweat?\u00a0 Maybe you make \u00a0lists of pros and cons.<\/p>\n
What if there was another way?\u00a0 What if there was a way to listen to your higher self, your Soul, your inner guidance for the answer?<\/p>\n
Today I am sharing with you a simple technique to help you make decisions in alignment with your
\nSoul.\u00a0 I received a little assistance from an Ocelot who showed up in my meditation.<\/p>\n
Of course it is no coincidence that this Ocelot showed up to talk about decisions.\u00a0 The fact is I have been faced with several significant decisions lately.\u00a0 Well closer than lately\u2026even today.\u00a0\u00a0Even as I was writing this blog<\/i>\u00a0I received a phone call about an offer I made on a large purchase.\u00a0 I was faced with another decision\u2026offer more money or walk away.\u00a0\u00a0 The Universe, with its great sense of humor decided that if I was going to teach you how to do this\u2026I better darn well know what I am talking about.\u00a0 I better walk my talk.<\/p>\n
First, let me share how Ocelot makes decisions.\u00a0 Then I will share my process and how decision making can be easier for you and in line with your soul\u2019s journey.<\/p>\n
Ocelot.<\/b><\/p>\n
\u201cWe make life and death decisions every day.\u00a0 We do it quickly and easily.\u00a0 We don\u2019t contemplate we just feel into it.\u00a0 We use our feelings to know if we should pounce or slip under a rock.\u00a0 When we are aware, when we are present we stay safe; we find food.\u00a0 If we become distracted which means we are not listening to our instincts then we can quickly become food for others or lose out on food.\u00a0 Our lives are simpler than yours.\u00a0 Find food, eat, rest, play and do it some more.\u00a0 It is enough.\u00a0 It is our way as Spirits that incarnate as animals.\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n
Stay connected to your instincts without distraction and your decisions will be easy.\u201d\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n
I thanked Ocelot for her input.<\/p>\n
This afternoon when the phone call came in on my big decision I did the following to be in alignment with what Ocelot shared and my higher self.<\/p>\n
First, I got quiet and took a few deep breaths.\u00a0 I allowed my stress and monkey mind to leave with my out breath.\u00a0 For several minutes I just observed my breath.<\/p>\n
Quietly I said to myself, \u201cI release my ego, my fears and all distractions from this decision.\u00a0 I am open to the guidance from my Soul, so that my decision reflects my highest good and the highest good of the planet.\u201d<\/p>\n
Next, I focused on my heart center.\u00a0 Using a similar process to connecting with an animal, I brought forth a feeling of gratitude and joy allowing my heart center to expand, allowing the feeling of love to encompass my entire energy field.<\/p>\n
Then, paying close attention to my body, I suggested a higher price as a counter offer.\u00a0 This process introduced into my energy field the intention of a potential decision.\u00a0 Paying attention, I noticed my body go from relaxed and calm to anxious with a knot in my stomach.\u00a0 Bringing myself back to a calm state, I floated another possibility. \u00a0The response was the same.\u00a0 When I asked about my original offer, I went back to calm.<\/p>\n
There is my answer.\u00a0 Stay where I am.\u00a0 No counter-offer.<\/p>\n
But of course it isn’t that easy for me\u2026 or for most of us.\u00a0 My mind and ego want to argue with my body, my Soul.\u00a0My mind says\u2026just a little more will be okay.\u00a0 It\u2019s not that much more money. \u00a0(And really more money is not an issue).<\/i><\/p>\n
You see I had already formed attachments to the outcome.\u00a0 I had made future plans. \u00a0My ego was very involved. There is a little girl inside me stomping her feet and saying “but I want it and I have the money”.<\/p>\n
It isn’t about the money.\u00a0 I have no idea of all of the possible ramifications of this decision. \u00a0I can’t possibly fathom what the Universe has in store for me.<\/p>\n
This is where I need to trust.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m choosing to follow the path that doesn’t necessarily make the most sense.\u00a0\u00a0 I have committed to listening and following my inner guidance.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s important to understand that if I didn\u2019t follow the guidance, the world would not end.\u00a0 \u00a0I wouldn\u2019t have made a wrong choice.\u00a0 I would have made a different<\/i> choice which leads to other experiences and other lessons.\u00a0 That is okay.<\/p>\n
I will follow my inner guidance just the same.<\/p>\n
I will follow it because I trust my Soul and have made a commitment to listen.<\/p>\n
I trust that this decision will keep me on the path to live and\u00a0give<\/i>\u00a0my best life.<\/p>\n
My Soul has never failed me.<\/p>\n
Your Soul will not fail you.<\/p>\n
Give it a try next time you need to make a decision and let me know how your path unfolds.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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