{"id":7502,"date":"2013-10-22T16:11:51","date_gmt":"2013-10-22T16:11:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/?p=1254"},"modified":"2013-10-22T16:11:51","modified_gmt":"2013-10-22T16:11:51","slug":"are-you-making-your-sensitivity-worse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/?p=7502","title":{"rendered":"Are You Making Your Sensitivity Worse?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do you ever find yourself saying\u2026<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00a0\u201cI hate that I am so sensitive<\/b><b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u201c I wish I would stop feeling other peoples stuff\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u201c I just want all these negative people out of my life\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s understandable to want less sensitivity in your life if you answered yes to the above because <em>you\u2019re making your sensitivity worse<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><b>What you resist persists.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Where your attention goes\u2026energy flows.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>These aren\u2019t just catchy phrases spewing out of new agers.\u00a0 These statements are based on the laws of energy which are as real as physical laws like gravity. \u00a0Gravity is easy to see.\u00a0 The basic laws of energy mentioned above can be \u201cseen\u201d in other ways.<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever woken up and stubbed your toe, then spilled the coffee and declared to yourself, this is going to be a rotten day?<\/p>\n<p>Guess what?<\/p>\n<p>You just made it so.<\/p>\n<p>If you shift your attention at that moment to something you are grateful for, I can pretty much guarantee your day will shift to one of ease.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe someone at work made a negative comment about you.\u00a0 It hurt your feelings so you told all your friends.\u00a0 You told other co-workers and defended yourself.\u00a0 You stewed about it all day long.\u00a0 Chances are your relationship with that person at work has gotten worse and you are spinning downward to depression or angry defensiveness.<\/p>\n<p>You can stop before you get to the bottom.\u00a0 When you first hear the negative comment, take five minutes to breathe and center yourself.\u00a0 Ground your energy and see where this person\u2019s energy has attached to you.\u00a0 (I know it has attached to you because criticism steals energy, so this person\u2019s negative comment has an energetic cord to you draining your energy).\u00a0 See this cord dissolve.\u00a0 Remind yourself, \u201cWhat others think of me is none of my business\u201d.\u00a0 You will feel better.\u00a0 You may still need to talk with some friends about it but it will have a different energy and you will be able to release the incident much quicker and with much less drama.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, Wendy but I\u2019m a <strong>highly sensitive empath<\/strong>.\u00a0 I can\u2019t help but feel all this crap.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you are a highly sensitive empath but what if instead of focusing on all the <i>negative<\/i> aspects of this sensitivity you decided to embrace the <b><i>gifts<\/i> <\/b>of your sensitivity.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/sesitivy-phot-with-words.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-1255\" style=\"margin: 10px;\" alt=\"sesitivy phot with words\" src=\"https:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/sesitivy-phot-with-words-240x300.jpg\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>What if you said to yourself\u2026or out loud each day\u2026<\/p>\n<p><b>I love that my sensitivity allows me to be in touch with my higher self to receive guidance.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s great being a highly sensitive empath because I know right away which people to embrace and which people to avoid.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I love that I can sense other\u2019s feelings as it allows me to be compassionate and loving.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Being a highly sensitive empath helps me understand my animal companions in a deep way so I can better care for them.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you begin focusing on the gifts of being a highly sensitive empath, you will begin to notice more magic in your life. \u00a0Your gifts will increase. You will feel lucky and grateful to be a highly sensitive empath. \u00a0You will begin to feel strenghtened by your sensitivity. \u00a0And you will feel less of the yuckyness.<\/p>\n<p>Give it a try.\u00a0 I\u2018d love for you to share your experiences in the comment section.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you ever find yourself saying\u2026 \u00a0\u201cI hate that I am so sensitive\u00a0 \u201c I wish I would stop feeling other peoples stuff\u201d \u201c I just want all these negative people out of my life\u201d It\u2019s understandable to want less sensitivity in your life if you answered yes to the above because you\u2019re making your [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[54],"tags":[88,110,111,122,147],"class_list":["post-7502","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-highly-sensitive-empath","tag-empath","tag-highly-sensitive-empath-2","tag-highly-sensitive-person","tag-law-of-attraction","tag-resistance","entry","has-post-thumbnail","gs-1","gs-odd","gs-even","gs-featured-content-entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7502","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7502"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7502\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7502"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7502"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7502"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}