{"id":7520,"date":"2015-02-19T01:25:03","date_gmt":"2015-02-19T01:25:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/?p=1812"},"modified":"2015-02-19T01:25:03","modified_gmt":"2015-02-19T01:25:03","slug":"are-you-invisible","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wendywolfe.com\/?p=7520","title":{"rendered":"Are you Invisible?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Last week I was standing alone at a counter to order dinner; the attendant back in the kitchen.\u00a0 A few minutes later two young women walked up to the counter and stood alongside me, checking out the menu.\u00a0 When the attendant came out from the kitchen he looked at the two women and asked for their order.\u00a0 Without hesitation they proceeded to give him their order as if they had no clue I was waiting there first.\u00a0 I looked at them and realized \u00a0\u201cI am invisible\u201d<\/i>.\u00a0 Okay, not invisible enough to commit a crime and get away with it but I hadn’t registered on their radar at all.\"We<\/a><\/p>\n

My first reaction was to feel slighted but this had much more to do with my energy than their rudeness.\u00a0 As I joined my friends I said, \u00a0\u201cI’ve shrunk my energy so far inside, I’m invisible\u201d.\u00a0 The reason was clear.\u00a0 For two weeks I had been dealing with health issues and had unconsciously pulled my energy back.\u00a0 At that moment, I ran a quick energy routine to ground and expand my energy.\u00a0\u00a0 Later that evening I stopped at a store to pick up a few things.\u00a0 At the check-out the clerk and I connected with our eyes and smiles.\u00a0 We had a genuine conversation and I knew all was well with my energy.<\/p>\n

It wouldn’t surprise me if you’ve been invisible too. \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0
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—You\u2019re in a store and no one waits on you.<\/p>\n

—You raise your hand in a group only to be continually ignored.<\/p>\n

—You talk to your partner and it\u2019s as if they don\u2019t even hear you.<\/p>\n

Our first reaction in these situations it to blame the other.\u00a0 While it may be true they aren’t completely present, the ability to shift the situation and change them<\/i> lies within you<\/i>.<\/p>\n

You are powerful when you master your energy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Shrinking our energy into invisibility can be useful at times.\u00a0 We do it when we are young and don\u2019t want to draw attention to ourselves.\u00a0 The problem is when you aren’t aware of your energy, being invisible can hamper success in many areas of your life.<\/p>\n

Imagine you’re feeling intimidated by your new boss which triggers an old feeling of insecurity and as if on auto pilot you pull your energy in before the big meeting.\u00a0 You’ve just unconsciously diminished your ability to be seen, heard and respected.\u00a0 You also make it more difficult to be your amazing, authentic self.<\/p>\n

Maybe you need to have a difficult conversation with your teenage daughter.\u00a0 You feel anxious and uncertain. Resorting to old, unconscious<\/i> energy habits, you pull your energy in.\u00a0 When you meet with your daughter she is unresponsive or irritable.\u00a0 What you don\u2019t realize\u2026and what she doesn’t understand consciously is when your energy is pulled in she senses you aren’t really there\u2026that you don\u2019t care because a part of you is missing.<\/p>\n

This unconscious energy communication can be powerful.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you take the opportunity to shore up your energy \u00a0before you meet I guarantee the results will be different.<\/p>\n

Being invisible affects our relationships with people and animals, reduces our \u201cpower\u201d in the world and allows others to dominate when it happens unconsciously.<\/p>\n

Being Invisible is a SUPER power when used strategically.<\/strong> \u00a0Just ask Marvel comics’ Invisible Woman. \u00a0Sometimes not drawing attention is exactly <\/em>what you want.<\/p>\n

The key is awareness of your current energy field and how to manage it.\u00a0 I\u2019ll be sharing tips on how to do this March 10th during my free teleseminar, Successful Sensitivity<\/a>. \u00a0To shore up your energy right now, put your name and email in on form to the right and get my free Energy Mastery workbook and guidebook. \u00a0It will help you turn on your Superpowers in just 10 minutes.<\/p>\n

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